I saw your “review” ( though I think it was more a thought) on the movie Before Sunset, which is my favorite movie of that trilogy. I really liked those movies, the story, and the dialog. Linklater is kind of known for those really long, unedited shots. Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy did an amazing job with it. I couldn’t imagine having to do THAT long of a scene. Linklater also did a music video (can’t remember the artist) where the artist was walking around backstage singing and playing the guitar the entire time with production chaos going on all around him, also unedited. Philip Seymour Hoffman was his roadie following him all around during the video. Hard to believe they pulled it off. It was very cool. Sorry for your loss. I too am a widower, as cancer took my wife in 2016.